Kevin Minnis

“Oh this is the Grandpa one.” – Jayden

Tonight Jayden sleeps for the first time without his “blanky” since he got it when he was just a baby. It’s quite monumental to have him part from it. He decided today that he would give it to another baby who really needed it. The baby he chose was Josh and Jodi’s baby, Olivia. He didn’t have too hard of a time going to sleep, but you could tell he was sad. I thought  it would be fun to write a short poem. So here goes.

I miss you so, my taggy blue.  

Please bid Olivia well.

You gave me comfort,

through thick and thin.

From the time of constantly carrying you,

to the having you only at night.

Take care my taggy blue,

I’ll miss you so. 

 

This past Friday and weekend Kim and her Mom, Sister, and Niece took a shopping trip to Minneapolis, MN. That means I got to take care of the kids for the weekend. I did have planned to go to Humboldt to help my Brother and buddy, Scott, put in some cabinets that Scott had ordered from my Brother’s business. But, Tasha, one of our friends that was going to take care of the kids while I was gone ended up getting the flu. I wasn’t quite sure if I should even attempt to take the kids for an hour and a half drive by my self. I ended up taking them and managed to stay sane. Josie cried for at least a half an hour on the way up and both of them had their moments on the way back, but I managed.

How does a single parent manage to handle two kids? All I can say is I don’t know how. Take the simple thing as having Jayden needing to go to the bathroom. We stopped near Ft. Dodge on the way back and had some McDonalds (I know, I usually dislike eating there, but it’s quick and the kids usually eat something there). Well, about half way through our lunch, Jayden needed to go use the bathroom. Not a big deal if Kim and I were both there. Obviously, I took Josie (with chicken nugget in hand) in with Jayden and I. Everything worked out okay, but still, it’s not fun having to deal with both of them at the same time…making sure Josie doesn’t touch something she shouldn’t and keeping her chicken nugget off the floor.

All in all, the kids were pretty good for the whole weekend. But, it sure is nice having Kim back home.

Well, we’re in the new year. Christmas was great and we all got lots of goods from everyone. The kids are finally over their colds/flu and all that jazz so we’re moving along with some fun times. Josie is getting more teeth in all the time so that makes her a little crabby at times to say the least. Today Josie even told us potty when she went in her diaper and walked into the bathroom…so who knows, maybe she’ll be potty trained before Spring. One could only hope. Jayden’s been playing full time with his toys and loves to play with his train sets on his train table in the basement.

Josie started making some funny tongue noises the other day so I thought I’d share them with you. Enjoy the video.

Funny Tongue Noises from Kevin Minnis on Vimeo.

Till next time…

Well, it happened last week with Josie. She threw up twice and had well…let’s just say problems at the other end too. Wouldn’t you know a week later and now Jayden has it. Sucky! At least he can use the pot. He hasn’t had any regurgitation out of his mouth so hopefully he can bypass that part. So, that means another weekend at home not able to go out. As it was last weekend, Kim and I took turns getting out of the house so we didn’t go crazy. At least the weather won’t be a part of the frustration this weekend. When Jayden is healthy, he’s been up to playing more with his teddy bear and using his imagination quite a bit. Everything has been about sharing with his Teddy and Teddy wanting to do something. He’s also coming up with some memorable phrases. Last week Kim gave him a snack down in the living room. He tends to make a mess as most kids do when they’re his age while eating it so Kim told him to be careful and not make a mess. His response, “It’s okay Mom (he doesn’t say Mommy any more), you can clean it up.”

On a brighter note, Josie’s all better now and constantly grazes the cereal boxes whenever she can. She’s also trying to talk more. You can kind of understand somethings that she says. She’ll make the sound a cow, sheep, monkey and horse make. And she’s also said tractor. She does play with Jayden’s toys quite a bit.

Only 9 days till Christmas!